Loved One In Need Of Drug Rehab – How To Intervene
March 11, 2010 by Abbey Dale
Filed under Health and Fitness
When someone that you care about is suffering from an addiction, you might feel completely helpless. The addict most likely doesn’t even realize that they are suffering the effects of their addiction no matter how plain it is to everyone else. They won’t listen when you talk to them about is. It’s easy for addicts to ignore their addictions when they are confronted by just one person. That’s why it’s best to gather a group of people and have an intervention.
You may have heard the term ‘Intervention’. It has been the subject of many documentaries and television specials. But, being faced with an intervention is most likely on of the most serious events that can happen in the life of an addict. It is when a group of people, that are involved in the addict’s life in some way, gather together and confront the person about their problem. It is a very difficult situation and the idea is to lead the person to seek help, most likely through a drug rehab. If you are planning to have an intervention with a loved one, here are some things that you need to know.
You need to be prepared for resistance. Addicts are notorious for not wanting to accept help, and you can expect this if their addiction has gotten to the point where an intervention is necessary. It’s common for the addict to say that the members of the group are betraying them. Addicts will often act as if they do not have an addiction and refuse treatment. The message that the group cares for them has to come across. Still, no matter how hard you try to avoid it, the addict will most likely feel like they are being bullied.
To have an intervention, you should gather a group of people up into a large room. One person needs to bring the addict to that place – it doesn’t matter if you have to tell them that you are taking them somewhere else. If you are not able to bring the addict to you, then the group must go to the addict. Have one person act as the moderator of the intervention. They should explain that everyone gathered there is a group of people that love him/her but they feel like they are loving him/her to an addiction. Tell the addict that the group wants to see the addict leave from the meeting and go straight to a drug addiciton treatment center.
Go around the group, taking turns reading a letter that you have written beforehand. It’s okay if you get upset while you are reading – don’t stop. Your letter should tell the person that you want to see them get help. Be prepared before you have an intervention – it will be difficult, but if you know what to expect you will be more effective.
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